Episode 40

Navigating The Mind: A Journey Of Mindfulness And Emptiness With A Light Worker With JJ DiGeronimo

On the 40th Episode of Mindful You, Alan interviews award winning author and speaker JJ DiGeronimo. Together they dive deep into the light on creating emptiness and how mindfulness is truly power. How can we escape our sea of thoughts and continually practice mindfulness? Find out on this captivating episode.

About The Guest:

JJ DiGeronimo is a three-time award-winning author, speaker, and former leading woman in the tech industry. She is passionate about helping women raise their frequencies and empower their future impact through tried-and-tested strategies, mindfulness, and energetic practices.

JJ's story is one of overcoming obstacles and finding her true purpose. After 25 years in the tech industry, she hit a wall from overproducing, over-delivering, and over-committing. She was questioning all aspects of her life and felt like she was her own worst enemy. She tried drinking more wine, sabotaging her marriage, and even considered driving away and never returning.

Eventually, JJ realized that she needed to make a change. She started by seeking professional help and began a journey of self-discovery. She learned how to set boundaries, say no, and take care of herself. She also began to explore her spiritual side and connect with her inner power.

JJ's transformation was profound. She went from feeling overwhelmed to feeling connected to a higher purpose, which led to a determination to share her findings with more women.

Today, JJ is a successful author, speaker, and spiritual liaison. She shares her story and her strategies with women all over the world. She is on a mission to help women raise their frequencies and empower their future impact. You can find her inside Together We Seek: https://www.togetherweseek.online/

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About Alan:

Alan Carroll is an Educational Psychologist who specializes in Transpersonal Psychology. He founded Alan Carroll & Associates 30 years ago and before that, he was a Senior Sales Training Consultant for 10 years at Digital Equipment Corporation. He has dedicated his life in search of mindfulness tools that can be used by everyone (young and old) to transform their ability to speak at a professional level, as well as, to reduce the psychological suffering caused by the misidentification with our ego and reconnect to the vast transcendent dimension of consciousness that lies just on the other side of the thoughts we think and in between the words we speak.

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Transcript
Alan Carroll:

Welcome to the next episode of the mindful you

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podcast. As we explore the paths that various people have taken,

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and where various people are on that path in the direction of

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this land call mindfulness. And today's guest, JJ, Director

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Monaco is going to share with us her path. And wow, it was just

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she has the ability, JJ has the ability to have have one foot in

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that mindfulness experience. And then is able to articulate her

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thoughts, to support other people, and being able to have a

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greater realization of have of that space of consciousness that

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we're calling mindfulness. It was just captivating. tears to

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my eyes. Just how wonderful it is to be able to have JJ de

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Toronto as a guest on the mindful U podcast. So please

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welcome with open hearts. JJ. JJ D Geronimo. Welcome to the

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mindful U podcast.

JJ DiGeronimo:

Hello, and I'm thrilled to be here. Well, thank

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you very much. I'm thrilled to have you here.

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Especially I love the fact that I was reading JJ, your your bio

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was lots of mindfulness words appeared, mindfulness, this and

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this. And so you definitely have been swimming in the ocean of

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mindfulness. So let me just backtrack a little bit and find

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out well, when did you first dip into the ocean? What what, what

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what happened? What age what did any event occur that really

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said, Oh, what's what's going on here? But take me back in and JJ

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time? Well,

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I would say it mostly all happened around 2016. It was

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sort of a tower moment. For me, I had a lot of things that were

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just crumbling around me. And I ended up in the therapists

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office saying, you know, I don't have the joy I expected. I'm

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overworked. I have all these wonderful awards and accolades,

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but I'm not really connecting with them. I don't really

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experience the joy I was expecting. And I had a session

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with her. And she told me at the end that I needed to go to

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mindfulness training. And I thought it was ridiculous. Just

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like, this is serious. Like, I'm at a point now in my life, where

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I'm questioning everything and mindfulness training. What is

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that? And why would I do that? That sounds so puffy in out

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there. And I really need real answers. Absolutely.

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practical things.

Unknown:

Yes. And I was such a plus personality, I worked so

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much in my masculine energy. I was such a deliverer, I worked

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in high tech, most of my career in Silicon Valley, and I needed

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action like real action steps. And to me that sounded like

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something you do when you have nothing else to do. That's

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funny. True, though, to be honest, is

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abstract. You know, and doing push ups is real. So what do I

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want to do push up, I don't want to abstract stuff. This is

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serious. We're talking about here now. It's my life.

Unknown:

That's exactly right. So when I stopped visited her

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for the third time, she basically said do not come back,

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unless you go to mindfulness class. So Sunday at noon, I'm

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trucking in with my coffee and my notebook to this mindfulness

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thing. I'm at a table with people like eight to 10 people,

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it was based on Jon Kabat Zinn's training, and I kept opening my

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notebook and taking notes. And at the break, the teacher came

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over to me and said, what what is the notebook for? And I'm

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like, kind of looked at her like, court might well, in case

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I have a good thought she's like, next time you come, can

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you leave your notebook in the car? And my answer was, hell no.

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I have good thoughts when I'm quiet. So I need my notebook.

Alan Carroll:

That's right. You're right. Absolutely. So how

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did the battle go between the notebook and the teacher?

Unknown:

So I brought the notebook back in.

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There you go. That's right. Yes. Good. Good

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for you. You stand up. I like that.

Unknown:

Yeah. And at the break, she asked me to put the notebook

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like closer to the door. And I just was like, This is so

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annoying like I'm doing this class. But as you know, I wasn't

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doing the class because I was in my head. So I wasn't doing the

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class. And by the third class, I left my notebook in the car.

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Wow.

Alan Carroll:

All right. What was that must have been a

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breakthrough moment.

Unknown:

Oh, no, it was painful. It was painful. Because I was

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getting all these thoughts. And I'm like, should I put it in my

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phone, she doesn't want me to touch my phone. I would say out

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of the eight week class, it took me well into the fourth class

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that I could actually even participate in the activities. I

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was so tightly wound. I was such a producer. I pride myself on

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being producer that it was it was tough to even be in the

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class.

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What a wonderful experience.

Unknown:

It was the greatest thing that ever happened to me

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honestly, because there were people in my class that had come

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back for the second time or the third time she had an open door

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policy once you went through the class one time you could come

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back again get refreshers. So I think I was absolutely the

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knowingly. Natalie am my annoying everyone in the class,

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I was a complete distraction. And I feel so sorry for those

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people now because I could have benefited so much from being

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willing and open to being part of the classroom, the beginning,

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but there was no disguising my need for the class. It just took

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me a long time to figure out why it was there.

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was absolutely no like, the ego is taking a stand

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and, and I'm not going to surrender my position. I'm not

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going to surrender my thoughts, my ideas, my beliefs about what

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is real and what is not real. What do you mean letting go? So

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it sounds like from the first class to the fourth class, JJ

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was letting go letting go letting go letting go letting

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go. And you were always holding on creating, holding on

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creating, holding on creating, producing, producing, producing,

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I don't let go i buy build, I don't let go. I don't create

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emptiness. I create fullness, baby. And so what was it like to

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create emptiness?

Unknown:

Well, it took some time. I won't deny it. But I

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will say that the thing that mindfulness training has

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provided me is the ability to have space between my thoughts.

Alan Carroll:

You bet you Bob like this disco, say that again?

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Tell the universe twice. It should shoot that one out there

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twice. JJ. Yes. My big thing that you realized

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is that my thoughts are not me. My thoughts are only a

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part of me.

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Right? It's, it's, it's like, you got to sell it.

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And then you got the little things on top of the salad. And

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thoughts are, what I got about are the one that Eckhart Tolle

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talks about. He says the thoughts are the ripples on the

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ocean. Just little tiny ripples that fade away. But you have the

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ocean. And mindfulness is the realization that underneath

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those ripples of thought, there's an ocean and boy that

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have that realization. JJ is exactly what I see is exactly

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what that's the deposits about the pauses about? Well, I can't

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manage the thoughts that I think that's real, real woowoo stuff.

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But I can manage the thoughts that I speak. How can I do that?

Unknown:

Hold on to Yeah, the thoughts you hold on to the

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thoughts you pay attention to the thoughts you leverage. It

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was such a profound shift that happened over a period of time.

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It wasn't like even once I moved through the class, it still took

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me a while to just I think it took me all eight classes to

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just really realize what mindfulness was just that space,

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that ability to just let thoughts pass through without

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grabbing onto any one of them. Like what a profound learning

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especially for a soul that has been in the thoughts as the life

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for decades.

Alan Carroll:

And so is 99% of the population on the planet

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Earth. So it's, we're not alone. It we are we are all immersed in

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a sea of thoughts. And and, and so how do you escape from those

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see your thoughts? So next question. How did you escape

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from your sea of thoughts inside your head, JJ

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Well, I'll just be honest, there's no escaping per

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se, the thoughts are always there. They're always there.

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It's like, and I think this was a huge lesson for me is, you

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know, I had tried to mindful, I've tried to meditate a decade

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before this. I tried all the apps, but the reality is like

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until you learn mindfulness, at least in my account, you can't

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really meditate and you can't just jump into meditation

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without understanding mindfulness. I think mindfulness

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is precursor to meditation for me. And so I always have

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thoughts. Thoughts are there all day all night, but the idea of

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mindfulness gives me the ability to sit back and just watch.

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Yep, there's a ticker tape and in Times Square,

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when you watch the ticker tape go across the buildings, dah,

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dah, dah, dah, dah, doo doo doo. It's like the thoughts inside

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your head all day long ticker tape ticker tape, ticker tape,

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ticker tape, sequential No, no, no breaks at all between the you

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don't know when a thought starts and another thought, and it's

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continued ticker tape. And tal and Deepak Chopra are saying 65

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to 80,000 thoughts a day, pass through the old ticker tape. And

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then you ask yourself, well, how many of those you remember? You

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don't remember any of them? They fade away. And that's that's the

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dream of thought. But but but mindfulness is different. How is

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mindfulness different, JJ than that stream of thoughts?

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I mean, for me, mindfulness is the tool. It's

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the tool that I leveraged to not hang on like a monkey to those

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stories, it gives me the ability to create space and separation,

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it allows me to decide if I even want to listen to those

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thoughts, which is something that I've had to teach myself,

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like, I have to hold my hand up and say things out loud, like

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thank you so much. Appreciate it, you know, that ego

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conversation, you're constantly having of why it's not going to

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work, why you're not the person call, you're not prepared. I

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mean, it's just an just a parade of thoughts that often are not

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supportive to what you want to lean into. And so I feel like

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for me, it's given me the opportunity to not only

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recognize that my thoughts are not all of me, but also the

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space to decide which thoughts I want to explore and which ones I

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want to let go of.

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So to recognize that you're thinking, so you're

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saying, I recognize that right now? I'm thinking I am

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recognizing that there are thoughts in front of me right

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now. I'd read their thoughts. I don't know what they are. But

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their thoughts right there. So I got that recognition. That was

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the first thing you said, then in order to recognize something,

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then there has to be what? There has to be that space between the

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observer and what's being recognized. And so you said, you

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said, you need to recognize that there's a space between you and

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the thoughts that you're thinking. And that is, that's

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the definition of mindfulness, to be able to recognize that

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there's a space between you and the thoughts? And what's the

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value for us the next question, JJ, so So what's the value of

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creating a space? What was so what created space? So what I

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was saying is, I don't want to empty things, I want things in

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my life that will make me feel better. It's absolutely magical

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space.

Unknown:

Yeah, the map space is the magic, the space is the

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magic. Because when you have space, you have freedom.

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Really, I like freedom, no doubt about freedom.

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But how does? What is space by the way? And why does it give me

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freedom? Where is this space you're talking about?

Unknown:

It is, it is it is the magic of life, because it gives

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you space between your thoughts, you are not your thoughts. You

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don't have to do anything based on your thoughts. And it gives

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you emotional freedom to not attach any emotion to any

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thoughts. And so you can just be in the moment without any

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emotion as an observer of what is happening not only inside you

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but outside of you.

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Are you saying that I could be watching this

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movie of life, like I'm in a movie theater, and I'm watching

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this movie in front of me my popcorn, I can watch the display

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of actions and characters that are going by and events and

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action things and all the things that happen like the media and

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you know, watch the media, and I can keep my body and energy and

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emotions to sort of stable, why I'm watching these, these what

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people read regardless, for rendus chaotic things, and I

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keep my body relaxed. You're saying that's what happens for

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me It sounds like pretty good stuff.

Unknown:

Oh, it's so amazing because you really start to

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recognize that what happens inside of you is actually

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happening outside of you. And so if you can keep a calmer state,

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if you can not be a roller coaster with your emotions, your

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outside starts to reflect your insight. And I really pair that

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with working on my energy or my frequency. So how I show up in

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life? What are the things that I'm focused on? What are the

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things I'm paying attention to? What are the things I'm reading

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and listening to, because I have learned that if you can raise

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your energy, along with being mindful, you can attract like

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energy.

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raise my hand, it's I'm practicing mindfulness.

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And there's something else I could do, in addition to that

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stillness and mindfulness thing, in order to raise my vibration

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level, to raise my vibration levels, so that I moved from a,

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a dull kind of dead vibration to a more invigorating, joyful life

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and joyful, blissful loving vibration. So it's like a scale.

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So what are a couple of these little tricks you got to raise

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my energy?

Unknown:

Well, for me, mindfulness was the cornerstone

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of just even recognizing that I have these thoughts that are not

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very positive, most of the time I beat the stink out of myself.

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But I would say there's really comes down to three things for

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me to raise my energy is one,

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but go slow. Now people are writing things down.

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Now. They're, they're putting a one on their piece of paper. And

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they're putting it two and a three. Okay, number one.

Unknown:

So number one is to mind my thoughts. Right? So

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number one, now that I have mindfulness in my life, I can

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pay attention to my thoughts. Are they mostly positive? Or are

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they mostly negative, and I can just pay attention, I'm just

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aware of them to mind, how I talk about other people or other

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things. Now, these are not necessarily things that come out

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of your mouth, but they're things that you're chewing on.

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They're things that you're saying, you know, if somebody

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comes into your house or into the workplace, like, are you

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having a thought about them? And is it positive or negative? And

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so the first kind

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of, it could be internal thoughts inside your

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head, like a little voice that talks to you? Yes.

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And I realized that as a participant in the world

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watching TV for a long time, I had a lot of judgment, whether I

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said it out loud or not, I was judging, judging, judging all

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the time, that was part of my awareness, once I became

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mindful, is that my mind that only beats me up all the time,

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but it's very judgy. And so I chose to say, You know what, I'm

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not going to live my life being judgey or beating myself up, I'm

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going to live my life in the positive energy. And I have to

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make mindful decisions to focus on the positive. And so I had to

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really create charts for myself. As I was shifting my energy,

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which was the result of becoming mindful, I was now able to be

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aware of am I more positive? Or am I more negative? Do I live in

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love and light? Or do I live in worry and anxiety? And so the

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mindfulness for me was that cornerstone that allowed me to

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start that shift?

Alan Carroll:

Well, you're you're good. I tell you, it's

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very, very clear, very, very clear to be able to articulate

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the abstractions that you're articulating, and a way that is

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clear. That's a gift. So do you definitely have a have a gift

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and expressing the beauty of the light? And now I also want to

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make sure I know number three on that list. Yeah,

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so that is, you know, one and two is like really

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getting the amount of listening to yourself and shifting and how

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I shifted, and I just want to give you the solution to one or

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two, and then I'll go on to three, but one and two, I had to

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really create a practice of gratitude. And this is something

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that, you know, you've read a lot about I have, but it's hard

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to just be grateful if you're not mindful. Because if you're

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just grateful, like, Oh, I love this, this is great. But it's

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not really shifting from within, meaning that you really believe

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that you have the gratitude. So I'm grateful for my bed. I'm

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grateful for socks, I'm grateful for gas in my tank, or I'm

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grateful that I have the ability to have a conversation with this

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person. Like the mindfulness gets you to be able to shift

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where you focus your energy within and to do to shift that

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energy. Gratitude was the bridge that got me from fear,

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negativity, anxiety, to love light appreciation.

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I'm taking my notes just like you did in your

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mindfulness class.

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So That's really the that's been so instrumental for

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me that has changed my life in so many ways, because it has

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given me more positivity on the inside. And then I've had to

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pair that with what I do on the outside. So what do I watch?

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What do I read? What do I eat? And that third grouping is what

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I do on the outside of me, like, what am I doing outside of me.

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And now, you know, I'm really, really mindful of what I'm

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watching what I'm reading what I'm eating, even the

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conversations I'm in with my friends, like, we're all going

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to have bad days, but I'm not spending 45 minutes talking

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about it, I've sort of conditioned myself that I can

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express things that are not going well, and three to four

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minutes, and then I'm going to move on. Because think we can't

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work humans, we still have things that happen that we need

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to express. But I really moved through my day with full

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appreciation for what I get to experience. And now that I'm

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mindful, I can live in the present moment, which was never

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the case before that practice.

Alan Carroll:

Yep. The idea of the mind, my thoughts, and when

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I wrote it down, I was realizing that you probably were spelling

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it mi n d. And I said, that's probably what JJ means. But also

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I spelled it mi en mi any mind, meaning that you're looking for

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the gold, because one of the things about thoughts that I

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noticed is that there are thoughts that build light and

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love. And there's thoughts that build hatred and separation. So

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if you can mind your thoughts for the gold, you don't have to

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spend time with the coal, you can just go for the gold, and

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you have the power to do that. But you have to be awake, you

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have to be you have to be in the driver's seat of your thoughts

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in order to direct the thoughts. And my observation is the ego is

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not awake. The ego is in a state of a dream state of

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consciousness. And and so how do you wake up from the dream? But

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you don't even know you're dreaming? So just for how do you

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wake up from the dream? But you don't know you're dreaming?

Unknown:

Well, in my life, I've had really significant guides,

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people that kind of come into my life at times that kind of

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pushed me right when I should be going left or I think I want to

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go left. And that therapist for me was a guide. So I did not

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know I was in the dream state I did not know I was living in the

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ego energy. Until Jill, the therapist said you must go to

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this if you ever want to come back. And so I think for most of

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us, we have something that happens in our life, that gives

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us the opportunity to walk through that door. Now I could

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have left after three classes with my notebook in hand yet but

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something made me stay. And I think for many of us, we get

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guides and whispers in times when we are expecting it or not

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expecting it, they come to us and we get to choose whether or

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not we want to lean into those.

Alan Carroll:

I remember a alchemy class at Santa Cruz

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University in California, taught by a union psychotherapist, and

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he showed a picture of the alchemical vessel. It looks like

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a tube and then it's a big fat bottom, like a beaker. And it

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showed you a bird inside the beaker. And there was water in

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the beaker was fire underneath the beaker was heating up. And

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the bird was like a pelican. And the beak was piercing the belly

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of itself and blood was dripping out of that alchemical vessel

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the transformation. And the interpretation was that that

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journey starts with a self inflicted wound. I can tell you

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JJ you need it. But you know, until you feel the pain, the

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suffering and acknowledge it you really don't wake up and say I

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got to do something. And you have shared with us today just

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wonderful experiences of of of waking up. And what I liked

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about what you're saying is that you have a very clear way of

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saying it. Very practical. And my experience of it it resonates

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to me it's I like the vibration of it the vibration the energy

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level the The glow of light that that you have, and the way you

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radiate the light out through your verbal speech through your

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radiance out into the world. And I know that you get and you use

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a term called lightworkers. So I'd like this to shift a little

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bit. And I know you have a meeting to go to, and I'm not

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sure the time it's how much time do we have left? I'm losing my

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time. Two minutes. Plenty? Plenty me. Okay, good. Good.

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Thank you very much. Okay, I got to get I get, I get lost in the,

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in the joy of meeting you that I sort of lose time. And thank

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god, there's someone with a watch. All right. And so the

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it's just really a light worker, you what is a light worker? And

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we'll we'll take it from there.

Unknown:

Well, as I mentioned before, when you have you have

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the ability to do this, anybody listening has the ability to do

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this, some of you might not need to get knocked upside the head

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like I did, hopefully, you taken on the Whisper well, before it

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happens. But if you do choose to go down the mindfulness path,

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and you have the ability to create that space, and then you

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take it to the next level, where then you get to choose how

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you're going to move through life, are you going to stay in

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the fear, anxiety, worry, or are you going to shift the light

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love. If you choose to shift the light and love that starts from

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within, you can start to not only illuminate your being

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because it allows you to really start to not only move into the

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gratitude space, but work through the stories that harness

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so much negativity. And these could start back, you know, as

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your 2468, I worked with so many Lightworkers energy

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practitioners and healers to dig through my vessel, because I

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wanted to create a vessel that we call the human body, I wanted

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to illuminate it, I wanted to get out all the dark energy that

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was maybe buried in a corner or buried from a story from

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something that happened as a child, I wanted to work through

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as much of those stories and darkness as I could. So I could

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be as light as possible for the work that I do with women. And

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through that work, I was able not only to illuminate myself,

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but my path of what I should be working on. And now I'm able to

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help others do the same. And I think for many of us, we all

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have the ability to illuminate our path forward. But

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oftentimes, we have to shift out of that negative energy into the

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light. And it takes very specific steps that any of us

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can do, which is a lot of what I've included in my third book

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seeking because I find that their ways they're actually

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perfectly orchestrated for us, as our soul is working through

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the evolution of being a human and the lessons we're here to

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learn.

Alan Carroll:

Let's take a little chapters in that seeking

Alan Carroll:

the seeking book. And I imagine it correlates with our

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conversation today. So share with us some of the key points

Alan Carroll:

that so is the book absolute let me see the book. All right,

Alan Carroll:

seeking very nice. Yeah.

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So seeking is 74 key findings to raise your energy

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sidestep your self doubt and align with your life's work and

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the 70 Court key for the 74 key findings are spread out through

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the book. And what I like to do is just open it up and get to

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one key finding. So the key finding is number 28. A solo

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trip, a solo trip can provide the dedicated time for you to

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explore it inside and out. So solo trip for me was a big deal.

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Because when I started doing all this work, I realized that I

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could no longer show up in the world. Like I had in the past

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that I was being pulled outside of my day job to do other work.

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And I was so uncertain about myself and the whispers I was

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receiving like you need to write another book and do more work

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with women, that I was in denial. And so I took a solo

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trip to Sedona because I felt like it was a place I could meet

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with many people to help me understand the messages I was

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receiving.

Alan Carroll:

Well, let's go to Sedona. What was your experience

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as a donor like?

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Oh, it was wonderful because it was really the first

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time as a mother and as a wife that I traveled by myself for

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pleasure, like I never did that once. I didn't get married till

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I was 30. And I traveled all the time by myself. But then once I

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had kids and a husband, I just felt guilty all the time. So I

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never did it. And for me this yearning to understand who I was

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and why I'm on the planet brought me to Sedona and I met

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with some amazing energy practitioners. But I it's

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Typically worked with an angel reader for five hours. And she

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told me that my work was going to have a lot to do with

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bringing people closer to God, which at the time I denied

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because I was working in corporate America, and I

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couldn't even think the word guide, let alone, talk about it

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or say something. But now it's been a decade. And I feel like a

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lot of the work that I do now is to remember, remind people that

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they are a part of that and that we all have like from the

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universe within us, that is here to connect, and guide and share

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love.

Alan Carroll:

Absolutely. So lightworker is if I understand

Alan Carroll:

this, though, I was listening to Alan Cohen. And it

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last weekend, I did the Sisters of Angel seminar in Sedona. And

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so for you talking about Sedona has a deep feeling inside of me.

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And transformation, Sedona if there's something there, that

Alan Carroll:

you're in the mindfulness business, just go there and hang

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out for a while. anywhere, anywhere you want to hang out,

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of course, the vibration is different. What did you notice

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about the vibrations in Sedona

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and I'm just visualizing the Red Rock and

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just the quietness at times, there's just the quietness is

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what I really remember. It's just and then if you get into

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the town or meet with different Lightworkers I mean, everyone's

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vibrating at a higher level, they've done the internal work.

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And so the whole energy of the place, in fact, some of the

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light workers and energy practitioners can even live

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there because the energy is so intense. But I would say to your

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point, you know, it is worth just hanging out there.

Alan Carroll:

Yeah, I absolutely, absolutely. Well,

Alan Carroll:

I'm, I'm full of your love. And it was a pleasure and a joy. To

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have the opportunity to experience the experience that

Alan Carroll:

JJ is like, very, very sweet. And I'll be I'll definitely will

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will purchase the book and I cuz it's it's exactly where you are.

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In any any way we can help folks to support folks to, to be able

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to be calm to observe the thoughts that you see and not be

Alan Carroll:

seduced by the thoughts and be able to smile and laugh and wave

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in all like I did a I had a Buddhist monk, he said, bless

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all the thoughts and let them go. Bless them all. Just let

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them go. And that sort of frees you have there's a fluidity to

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that rather than sticking, sticking, sticking, no fluidity

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fluidity, fluidity. And to me spaces, fluidity and error

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rates, the soil, in error rates, the being error rates that

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allows it allows a on openings, little holes opening up into the

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fabric of your ego, and its flow goes this way. And then you

Alan Carroll:

realize, hey, the flow goes this way. And so you can go both

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ways. And so I just want to thank you very much. You were

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really a a wonderful delight to have an opportunity to

Alan Carroll:

experience you.

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I really appreciate this discussion, and I look

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forward to more. So thank you, Alan.

Alan Carroll:

Bless you. Have a wonderful day JJ. You too. Bye

Alan Carroll:

bye for now.

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Alan Carroll is an Educational Psychologist who specializes in Transpersonal Psychology. He founded Alan Carroll & Associates 30 years ago and before that, he was a Senior Sales Training Consultant for 10 years at Digital Equipment Corporation. He has dedicated his life in search of mindfulness tools that can be used by everyone (young and old) to transform their ability to speak at a professional level, as well as, to reduce the psychological suffering caused by the misidentification with our ego and reconnect to the vast transcendent dimension of consciousness that lies just on the other side of the thoughts we think and in between the words we speak.